"Many men often feel intimidated by a woman who earns a significant income, is attractive, and dresses well," explained Stephen Mbuvi, encouraging women to take the initiative and express their interest in men they like.
"Wanaume wengi wanakuanga intimidated na dem anaearn pesa mingi, msupu, na mwenye anavaa vizuri," a man called Stephen Mbuvi says, urges women to shoot their shot at the men they like.
He contended that successful and attractive single women shouldn't be held responsible if men don't approach them. He added that men's egos often hinder them from expressing their feelings.
"Maboy wanakuangalia wanaona ile level iko sio ya ligi yao. Wanaume tuko na ego. Tunashindwa tu kukuapproach. Men like it wakikatiwa. If you have a good car, a good job, and your own money, try and reach out to these men because they will not reach out to you."
"Some guys look at these women and perceive them to be on a different level. Men have egos. We find it difficult to approach you. Men like it when they are pursued. If you have a good car, a good job, and financial independence, don't hesitate to make the first move because these men might not initiate contact."
"Moreover, some men assume that beautiful and financially stable women are involved with sponsors. That's a narrow-minded perspective. Many of these women have worked hard to achieve their status," Mbuvi further elaborated.
"Wanaume wengine nao wakiona ladies warembo na wako na pesa zao, wanafikiria ni kwa sababu ya sponsor. Hiyo ni ushamba. Some of these ladies work hard to be where they are," Mbuvi added.
