“Why do ladies test men in relationships and how men can escape such tests?”
When you are able to provide a woman with the feeling of being protected, it makes the woman feel safe in the relationship resulting in her respecting and feeling highly attracted to you, thus, loving you more.
However, for a woman to come into such a conclusion, they usually test your emotional strength first. She may pose several challenges to you in order to make you emotionally stronger. A woman’s challenge to her man‘s emotional strength is called a test. Thus, she is testing your confidence level.
It is her instincts that drive her into testing you to see whether you can remain emotionally strong under pressure, have any flaws in your emotional plate, weak in some areas or needs to tighten up some areas. She does all these so she can feel safe under your protection by identifying that you are emotionally strong and will be respected by other men too. She is going to feel that she is with an emotionally sensitive and confident man and needs to be supported at all times.
This an example of an emotional test you can experience from your woman: – you may get yourself a new trouser and on put it on thinking that she would give you sweet compliments like “that looks great on you”. Instead, she will pose a test to you and challenge you to see if you have confidence in yourself or you’ll start becoming emotional if she doesn’t support you in it. The thing is, she might have liked the trouser but instinctively be like “what are you wearing that for?” “That looks so weird on you” name them…to see how you would react.
You shouldn’t take it personally but instead, turn the joke on her. You should act confidently by possibly reacting to her complement in a stronger way. You can also be like, “You know I look good you’re just too shy to admit”. You need to proceed with more of such as jokes to turn the test on her for a laugh. You can then have a laugh with her about that and she could see that you doesn’t crumble under her “test”.
Some guys, however, don’t like that. They tend to think that the woman is not hundred percent supportive and encouraging. Some guys too opt into dumping a woman after several repetitions of such claiming that there is no need to keep “an out of line” woman like that. Well, if you try to use that approach, you will probably never have a happy successful relationship that lasts for life.
Women will never stop testing because they are promptly looking for that feeling of protection and safety that arises from being with one who believes in themselves and don’t start doubting themselves because of other people’s sentiments.
So, what is it about a man being able to pass a woman’s occasional tests in a relationship that makes her feel safe?
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